It's finally over!
Phew!
The presentation is finally over!!!
Over the past month, I have been sooo busy and stressed with this presentation that I have no time for anything else.
Glad that it's finally done, and no matter the result, I am just happy that it's over.
Have learnt lots in the process,
and saw the different reactions from people I know after it.
Realised something:
You can choose to give positive comments to encourage one, if what is done cannot be undo.
Or, you can go on and say : " Aiyah, just now you are too soft liao, so fast some more, should do this and that."
Your choice of response can either be words of encouragement,
or words that can further demoralise the person.
Not that it was intentionally meant to demoralise one, but it will seem as if to the person.
I've now learnt to "selectively" listen.
So that these criticism becomes a constructive feedback for me,
to know where my weakness is and improve in it in future :)


3 Comments:
ermm....that sounded like i was one of those who said u mumbled some words...
but aiya!!!! You did well in the end lah!!!! Dun be too paranoid lah!!!! :)
Saturday, March 11, 2006 12:34:00 AM
One thing I can be sure, unless u were super impressive or u make a super duper mistake...if you fall anywhere in between these 2 extreme, he won't even remember your name and your face. So...no worries.
Saturday, March 11, 2006 12:09:00 PM
Hahaha...
No lah, I was not referring to you...
and I really thought that it was a very good experience lah.
Anyway, the comments I got are really ok, just that i learnt how to give what kind of comments dependind on situations in future...
hehehe... :)
Not so concerned about whether anyone remembers me, and in fact, it's best that no one remembers leh!!!!hahaha :D
Tuesday, March 14, 2006 12:48:00 PM
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